Is it okay to kiss?

The teacher is a professional young man in his mid 20s. He has wanted to be an educator for his entire life and loves his job and enjoys helping his students. One of his students is an attractive young woman that seems to have taken a liking for her teacher. The teacher is not impervious to her charms but realizes how inappropriate it would be to pursue anything romantic.

The student is seventeen years old and one of the teacher’s better students. They talk frequently and exchange emails – the discussions are usually about literature (the subject the teacher teaches is English) but occasionally veer into the personal department. The teacher also occasionally meets with the student outside of class to help her work on an essay she is writing. They meet once or twice a week at a coffee shop. The student and teacher have not (yet) done anything of a sexual nature but they do have physical contact. This contact is mostly things like hugs, playful touching and hand holding.

The teacher realizes that having this close of a relationship with a student is not perfect but enjoys spending time with the student and being of assistance. Almost all of the out of school contact is initiated by the student. The student flirts with the teacher frequently – the instructor tries his hardest not to flirt back and only smiles and looks away when receiving attention. The teacher is not sure how to proceed as earlier this week the student kissed him on the lips when they were leaving after working on her essay. The teacher told her they shouldn’t at first but after a little bit returned her kisses. They kissed outside his car for several minutes before going their separate ways. They have seen one another in class since and been professional but there is a lot of romantic tension between the two. Their emails are becoming more and more personal and romantic in nature and the teacher is losing his resolve to refuse the advances.

What should the teacher do in this situation. He cannot go to administration because he has already acted somewhat improperly. The student is not immature or troublesome and would not do anything to reveal the indiscretions. Is it wrong for the teacher to continue the relationship and/or escalate the relationship?

Why is incest wrong? Why?
I was always mean to my sister & told her to get a life & get some friends cuz she weird & painfully shy. Like a few months ago, we were home alone, I called her ugly, then she went to her room & started crying. So I apologized & told I really think she’s the prettiest girl ever, & we hugged. Then she kissed me on the cheek & we did more kissing & eventually were both naked. She told me that I was her 1st. I was like,”LOL obviously, you think I didn’t know that.”

Now we talk to eachother all the time & cuddle. & our mom will never suspect anything since were siblings. She comes into my room almost everynight & sleeps with me. We hang out just the 2 of us all the time now & we respect eachother. We always say we love eachother. But I will never get her pregnant. We know that were gunna have to get different boyfriends & girlfriends eventually, but we enjoy what we have now & will never forget.

BTW I’m 17 , shes 16

As to this matter, there’s a few things people should open up to 🙂 for your case I think it’s lovely that it happened, but here’s the rest of the world pretty much taught that incest is a bad thing and making up what I call excuses, really, to justify their means 🙂 Usually the case is that a person is taught (either by law or society) that incest is disgusting and can bring disorders to children if any was born blah blah blah. I call B.S on that stuff, I know many couples like you guys (mostly in Belgium where it’s LEGAL to marry your siblings) and they had children with no defects at all 🙂 and whenever they are offended by people on the street for doing such things, I ask them where did they get the idea it was wrong…most people will say “because it is” or “no one does that” or “it’s disgusting”, but when I really ask deeply, they will often say it’s either the law made us to this or the Bible told me this or other religous stuff and I understand 🙂 Don’t be plagued by stories of people not working out because if you truly love each other and are ready for everything then I say go for it 🙂 As, for other people from mostly USA and some parts of Europe like the UK will pretty much disagree with me but there are more countries that allows incest relationships than you think 🙂


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